MEN BEWARE: “SOFT GIRL ERA” & THE WEAPONIZATION OF FEMININITY

Written by Michael Thervil

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There is a new trend in the American dating and intimate relationship market and it's called the “Soft Girl Era”. It's been reported by YouTube personalities like the legendary and unforgettable Kevin Samuels, “Minister Jap”, and honorable Houston Attorney Dennis Spurling also known as the “Blizzard King” that there would be a day when American women would weaponize femininity in order to manipulate American men. Sadly, that day has come. In fact, according to many men in America, women weaponizing their of femininity has been going on for quite some time prior to the writing of this article.

The weaponization of femininity occurs when women essentially “fake” being cooperative, agreeable, and soft spoken in their mannerisms in order to garner attention and favors from targeted and unsuspecting men. In short, women who fall into this category appear to present themselves to men in such a way that is opposite to who and what they actually are. There have been cases of men that have felt as if they have been tricked and essentially duped into dating these kinds of women thinking that they have “wife material” on their hands, when instead these unsuspecting men found out at a later in the relationship that got nothing more than a “conniving chameleon”. This has left these men wishing that they never got involved with these women in the first place. In short, many American women are faking cooperativeness and agreeableness.

The question that many people outside of America are asking is “how did the American dating market get this way?” While there is a myriad of reasons why intimate relationships have reached the point to where they are in America – the blame seems to fall on the shoulders of first and second wave feminism over time coupled with the acceptance that men and women are/should be equal – when the opposite is true. It should also be noted that over the last 5 decades, even though women have excelled in sectors such as employment and academia, those social achievements have appeared to come at a very steep cost – and that cost is women developing masculine traits.

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There is a small segment of women in America that have come to realize that those same masculine traits that women in America displayed overtime have done nothing for them but lock them out of the marriage market. When it comes to this, no one in America has been hit harder by this than Black American women – who according to statistics are the least desired for marriage in America. With many of these masculinized women finding out that they have been locked out of not only marriage but of any kind serious intimate relationship– they’ve appeared to turn to “social tricks and scams” to garner the attention of men in an effort to make their lives easier.

This brings us to American women weaponizing the act of being feminine in order to capture the attention of men. So, one of the key word’s men should be looking out for that should raise a red flag is when a woman uses the term “Soft Era/ Soft Girl Era” which means there will be an end to that era at some point. Another red flag American men should be looking for is when a women’s “soothing” and “soft spoken” words don’t match their living conditions and family structure. The notion of a woman being or subscribing to be of/in/a “Soft Girl Era” is nothing more than a phase like any other phase in one’s life. Men, but more importantly women should understand that a “soft woman” is something that you are – not want you decided to be. You're either a feminine woman (who is dainty in a positive way) or you a masculine woman, something that the overwhelming majority of men across the world will sexually entertain but not personally want.